I am Hutterite
* by Mary Ann Kirkby
I Am Hutterite takes readers into the hidden heart of the little-known Hutterite colony in southern Manitoba where author Mary-Ann Kirkby spent her childhood. When she was ten years old her parents packed up their seven children and a handful of possessions and left the security of the colony to start a new life. Overnight they were thrust into a world they didn't understand, a world that did not understand them.
Before she left the colony Mary-Ann had never tasted macaroni and cheese or ridden a bike. She had never heard of Walt Disney or rock-and-roll. She was forced to reinvent herself, denying her heritage to fit in with her peers. With great humor, Kirkby describes how she adapted to popular culture; and with raw honesty her family's deep sense of loss for their community. More than a history lesson, I Am Hutterite is a powerful tale of retracing steps and understanding how our beginnings often define us.
Controversial and acclaimed by the Hutterite community, Kirkby's book unveils the rich history and traditions of her people, giving us a rare and intimate portrait of an extraordinary way of life. -- from Amazon.com
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Before I read this book, I had no idea what a Hutterite was. If I'm being honest here, I equated Hutterites to be similar to polygamists. It's unfortunate that I had those thoughts first, but I just want to be honest. I am very interested in different cultures and religions, I've read many books about Polygamist colonies in the past, and I'm also interested in Amish living. These are two subjects that intrigue me, so I was pleasantly surprised by this book and would like to read more on the subject.
This book goes back as far as Mary-Ann's (Anne-Marie in the book) grandmother and follows the family through-out. It was so interesting to hear about the colony and how Mary-Ann's mother chose to follow her heart instead of the advice of her brothers. She married the man she loved and they had many children, but they had a difficult time because her brother didn't approve. Not having the approval of the guy who was basically "in charge" (kind of like a Polygamist prophet) could really lead to a difficult life. This is most evident when Mary-Ann's brother, Renie, dies. That section was so difficult to read, and I can't imagine the guilt that her parents felt, but because they couldn't get approval to go to the hospital, they were too late to save him. Heartbreaking.
Although her family ran away from the colony, their life on the outside was not as easy. They often had to resort to eating rotten food, and wearing clothes unlike anyone else. It was interesting to see Mary-Ann struggle with being an outcast, but still feel loyal to her family. She even went as far as saving some saran-wrap out of the garbage and school and bringing it home to reuse. I enjoyed this book because even though they did run away from the colony, Mary-Ann's childhood was a peaceful one and they led a pretty good life. I wonder if there wasn't that tension between the family, if they would have stayed.
This was a great book that I devoured in one day! I would love to read more about the Hutterite culture because, unfortunately, this is my first experience with it!
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**book was provided by Thomas-Nelson for review on this blog {confessions of a bookaholic}.